
“For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.” - Audrey Hepburn
One of the questions that I seem to get asked whenever doing an interview is something along the lines of, "What do you consider to be good fashion." Usually, my response points to "good fashion" being whatever makes you feel comfortable in your own skin/clothes and that there really are no rules. Sure, I have opinions on my own likes/dislikes, but it's really not up to me or anyone else to decide what is good for someone else. After giving this question more thought, I've concluded that really the best accessory someone can wear, making them a cut above the rest is having a kind and thoughtful heart.
I receive so many lovely emails and comments from readers of this blog and from my customers across the world and it really means so much! While I might not always respond, I certainly do appreciate someone taking the time out of their day just to say something nice.
Unfortunately, among many of the blogs that I read, I see nasty comments that others have made and I myself receive anonymous comments that are only meant to hurt feelings from time to time. I hate to see something like this getting anyone down because it shouldn't! The best way to look at it is, if someone really wants to take the time out of their day to say something cruel to another out of spite or just to intentionally cause pain, then they are way worse off than you or I. Motivations of jealousy and insecurity can cause people to act terribly pitiful, but when it takes a cruel turn, it's nothing short of pathetic (and cowardly when addressed anonymously). So, the next time someone else's words of hate get you down, just turn it around and know that you are above it. Walk with poise, speak only words of kindness and always find the good in others - even those who desparately lack the dignity to do so, as they need to be treated with a kind and thoughtful heart more than anyone.
Side note: Finding out who's leaving you those nasty anonymous comments is easier than you may think. I choose to not have anonymous commenting blocked on my blog, as not all of my readers have a blogger account. Rather, I have an invisible web tracker on this blog that gives me detailed reports on each and every visitor and site hit, including ip addresses and specific locations/dates/times of visits. While I'm just perfectly fine with the peace of mind of knowing who's a lover and who's a hater - internet harrassment is a crime that is now considered along the lines of physical stalking in many states and people can be prosecuted for it. Basically, aside from being sad, it's also not at all smart.
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